i really really don't understand. my mum sometimes can be a very good friend, but sometimes they can be so...i don't know how to describe!!! she will say "i was pregnant with u for 10mths and now i have to suffer with u all for more than 10 years!!!" (why in the 1st place u give birth to me that creates so much problems for u as what u are trying to say??!!), when i really need something and i say i wanna buy... she change her mind from not letting to let me buy, but she keep on chanting and chanting, when i decided not to buy, she will say u are "threatening" her then she will say a lot of crap...its like*........* whatever lars!!! what for chant?? isn't my answer what u want?? dont wanna buy just say it straight, no need to make everyone fume. she can be nice nice SUPER nice, but sometimes its really a bugger, i don't know which face of hers is real. God lead my way.